I Will Attract What I Want

In my seminar on Saturday I was challenged to write a list of what I want in a partner and what I am willing to give to my partner. The following is my desires of what I will now attract:

1.   I attract a man who is ready for a relationship I feel intuitively that he'll be ready for me.

I will continue to work on being the best me so that I will be ready when he shows up in my life.


2.   I attract a man who has integrity and keeps his word.

I believe I deserve a man who keeps his word since I always do my best to keep any promise that I make. I deserve nothing less than this.


3.   I attract a man who is dedicated to personal growth.

Since I am readily and continually working on being the best me with many seminars, books, blogging and making a decision to be as happy as humanly possible. I want this with my partner too.


4. I attract a man who's faithful.

I am and will always be 100% faithful, I will never take less then this ever again.


5.   I attract a man who has a phenomenal relationship with God.

Since I am working on having an amazing relationship with God, I want the same from my partner. He doesn't necessarily have to have my faith but he has to believe in and love God as much as I do. He has to have an open mind and be non-judgmental.


6.   I attract a man who looks at me with the eyes of love like God.

I want a man who will love and cherish me as much as God does, I will give him the exact same love if not more.


7.   I attract a guy who loves adventure.

I need a man who wants to have adventure in his life, such as traveling, zip lining, white water rafting, hand gliding. I am up for fun things, even if I'm a little afraid. I want to experience life to the fullest.


I was then told that I need to stop looking for my soul mate because:

'Your soul mate is not going to come along, you're soul mate is going to be where you're going.'

Basically what it's saying is that I just have to keep doing what I'm doing and he will show up wherever I'm going. It is not for me to look or search for him, it is for him to find me.

This list is truly what I want and deserve in a partner, I really believe in making lists and then letting go and when the time it right, everything works out the way it is supposed to.  This is one of my hardest challenges, as I have never left this one up to God or the Universe, I have to take a chance sometime, my methods have not worked yet.  They have only brought me sadness and pain. It's time to give something else a committed try.

I love this quote that says:

'What you put up with, you end up with.  Raise your standards and you will raise along with them.'