haven't been for quite sometime... Do I miss him? Yes... regardless if we were to never speak again, I will always consider him to be my best friend.
Next question that needs answering .... Do I want him back other than being friends? That would be no and it has been for a long time... as you all know I have dated, I will continue to date... I am looking for that kind, exciting, honest and sweet guy that will love me too.
Third, I can't believe this needs answering again as I blogged about it in the summer... Did I lose the weight for him? Let me make myself completely clear... I cannot lose weight for anyone but me, truthfully if I had tried to lose this weight for anyone but me, I would have failed...
Final thought... Do I have good thoughts and memories of him? Yes, I have good thoughts, I wish him only the best... I could never wish him less. I want him to be happy, he seemed to be when I talked to him last. I'm happy about that.
These are my last words on this matter... whether or not people can see, I've moved onto another path (that is their issue, not mine), ... I'm looking forward to where it leads.. I know I deserve happiness....
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Beautiful post! The best thing to do is to remember the wonderful moments we have with people and let go of bad memories. Stay strong sweetie! <3
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